Yesterday was my aunt and uncle's annual fourth of July picnic. (They have it on some day in the weekend closest to the fourth, usually). They've been having them for forever, and I have some super fond memories of the old ones. The new ones... just not the same. There used to be more family there, and the cousins that are my age were all together, rather than several of them being too busy being bored to either show up or interact with us. The cousin that I am closest to was there, and it was like we had seen each other less than a year ago, which was cool. But we used to have sparklers, and firecrackers, and the adults used to drink much more. Kate and I reminisced, and then also discussed how weird it would be in the next 10 years. Some of Bruce's (my uncle's) relatives were there, and his nieces and nephews are starting to get married and have kids already. Kate and I mused on how weird it would be, bringing a fiance or a husband to a gathering that we've been going to since we were at least four. Not in an awkward, "so, this is my family..." way, but more of a way of having an adult life, when we still remember being babies.
It's all weird to grow up. But, the family is now cool with offering me beer, and fine with me drinking and getting involved in the political debate/discussion things that always start up when it's just the family and the friends have left. It's nice in a way; I've moved away from the kid's table.